i am not sure which is more difficult,
not accepting the pressure to be more than we are
or being careful to not be less,
because all we really need to be is ‘me.’
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not trying to stuff in talents where they just don’t fit
angles not right, curves too severe,
shrinking who we really are in the process just to make space
because one container can only hold so much
and is designed for specific things.
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using the design well, operating within those strengths,
feeding them, nurturing with care,
those things bring fulfillment and even expand.
stretching and growing, pregnant with purpose
giving birth to joy.
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but when something just doesn’t fit,
isn’t within our makeup
even if we admire it from afar,
will only give birth to misery
when we try to force it in.
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©Heather Pound 2022

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