when my child was 

but one month old

she sat in her carrier, 

contemplating.

glancing at my face 

from time to time,

but mostly staring 

at a chair 

in fascination

while my doctor 

examined me. 

and he commented,

‘look at what 

she’s doing now.

this, this is vital 

for development, 

giving children space 

from activity and 

noise and letting 

them just be. this

is a gift as mother 

that you can provide. 

~~

and today i sat across

from my loved one 

in silence.

staring at the view, 

soaking in the day

and realized that 

this is one of the 

most productive things 

i have done in ages.

embracing companionship,

creating space for rest 

for heart and mind

experiencing solace, 

gathering in strength for

the journey ahead, 

peace in the now.

this is important work, 

yes work, that produces

longevity and quality 

in everything else we do. 

just as it was for my child. 

~~

—-during this holiday season, offer yourself the gift of space.

©Heather Pound 2022

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