it has taken quite a few years, but i think i am now close to
seeing myself the way that you have always seen me:
competent, kind, talented, even a little bit wise
—and equal, especially this,
something i had never really be offered before.
you chose a partner, someone to share life with
but also, to discuss deep topics and to make decisions
—together.
~~
this, the precious gift that you presented on the day that we wed
but something that i did not dare to dream that you actually meant
for quite a few years.
my history, my culture, myself, always in the way,
but you have made me believe
not only that i have the freedom to do significant things
but that i have the abilities needed as well
and you are happy, nay jubilant, to cheer me on.
~~
and would you believe, that i, who can usually say
just what i want when it comes to thoughts on a page
struggle put into words just how much this means
and how much you mean to this heart set free,
and how deeply and ardently i appreciate
the gift that is being yours, this healing,
and for the relationship that we now have
but you always intended
—as partners
~~
©Heather Pound 2022

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