you ask why you need
to forgive when you are not
the one that committed
the deed, that caused the pain,
that left an indelible mark.
and i smile and reply soft,
that forgiveness is not about
them, it is critically more
about you.
it does not excuse what they
did, but rather protects your
already hurting heart from
further damage, from
bitterness growing deep
into bones.
forgiveness means that
freedom for you
is on the way
and heralds
its approach loud.
there it is
just beneath the surface.
be patient as it blows
away dust, brushes out
cobwebs sticky and
your heart will
shine again.
©Heather Pound 2023

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