i used to wear certainty like armour tight
feeling as if this was an anchor required
before I went out into the wide-wide world
dropped in place solid
but i discovered realistically
that an anchor impedes the actual journey
for when it is dropped down tight
–we go nowhere at all
and i realised that if I wanted to look back later
with stories to tell
then an open heart
a couple of cleaned out ears
and eyes prepared to see
were necessary
and on the journey i beheld various kinds of things
and listened into the experience vast that
many others bring
there were times of confusion—and often are still–
but as i opened arms wide to embrace
i learned and grew in ways worth knowing
and my heart’s ability to care did not shrink
–it expanded
and my brain’s ability to reason and wrestle
with truths or lies
what is light or dark
–deepened
and as i look back after numerous years traversed
a multitude of places visited
both glorious mountain peaks high
and freezing altitudes low
i realise that the certainty of my youth
has tempered with experience
and that a heart that thought itself wise before
had much to learn indeed
and it is in the posture of a listener
that wisdom is discovered
—there is much richness found in examining the perspective of others that would be lost if we never venture out to listen

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