when i live for ‘me’ i wonder why things don’t go my way often how dreadful things continue to happen and it seems that questions like these lead down the path towards despair
but when i live for ‘we’ i remember there are more substantial things than my personal happiness constant and recall that my efforts unnoticed are worth doing still
how experiences difficult grew me that the support of others heals and allows me to walk beside someone else now
that assisting another today is fulfilling laden with meaning important worthwhile
heather pound 2025
photo by A. C. for Unsplash+
🌿There are times when we must help ourselves first and this is okay. But living that way continually is hollow. And lonely. The best way to live is a beautiful flow of mutual support, in community. This is often easier said than done, but worth searching for. When you find your people, hold on to them— but keep your circle open to embrace others, too!🌿
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if only you could release that knot, the one sitting creaky and long in the middle of your chest. oh, how deep you could then breathe
you would gather it all up in one tidy midsized ball—and then exhale, letting it flow from your heart into open air wide as it dissipates and vanishes
but even while you ponder prickles sharpen, and like the spines of a stubborn cactus it digs in tighter still
it will not be an easy thing this exhale of release
yet you draw thorns out of flesh one sting by even one more painful sting until at last it floats free
and you breathe in deep—
—and breathe out release. and there it goes, like tumbleweed across the road in bracing winter wind
and your heart begins to sing and remembers you are so much more than the voice that whispered harsh “inadequate”
—whatever your knot might be it’s worth the effort to release.
heather pound 2025
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🌿I reworked this poem from a couple of years ago because it spoke to my own heart today. This process is not easy, but is better in the long run than carrying the weight around another day longer. 🌿
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my great uncle dean fell into a lime pit as a very young boy and after that, the story goes, he was never the same again
(but in those days, ‘different’ was always a shameful thing, so maybe he was uniquely himself all along)
he was the one that lived with my grandpa and grandma, his sister and came quietly to meals not really engaging, slipping away as soon as he could
he shuffled in old clothes and didn’t act the way everyone else expected, but he worked the farm faithful.
and i remember my grandpa especially kind as he listened while his brother-in-law hesitantly spoke, unaware that i was watching.
times were tough on the farm, good seasons came and went but bills must be paid nevertheless
and my grandma, she worried. quietly carrying the burden with deep and tired sighs as her heart grew weaker and grandpa aged still working on the rented farm.
but one day her brother passed away sudden, and the bank manager said he had quietly been squirreling away his meager income year after year, after year
and had bequeathed it all—to her.
my grandparents purchased a cozy house in town and lived comfortably there the rest of their days, convenient due to a brother’s unexpected care.
the moral of the story is: intentionally be kind and love others well without any strings faithful
and don’t worry about things not easily solved today since they frequently work out in the end regardless
heather pound 2025
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the walls of water float high both sides since you are able to part the sea, but still i stand with shaking hands legs that tremble, heart that pounds
and honestly all i want is to retreat
because while i know this feat is yours, One-who-can-part-the-waves, these particular water walls loom especially high.
and though i see the path between is clear and even dry, this route requires significant trust that you will get me to the other side.
this path—beyond my ability well past my own strength into places i have never been environments that i do not know.
yet, like moses, so terribly long ago i hold my breath and inch one step by one step forward at a time, bordering on terrified
and remind myself of times past there has only been you and me, and how amazingly free that space can be
where i must just trust you
and while i tremble still i take a step of faith —and walk between the towering waves.
heather pound 2025
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he gave me a ring just because he knew that i liked jewellery, this little grandson of mine when he was only four
marching his mum right to a shop to spend his very own pocket-money saved on something i would love before my arrival.
insisting that they come inside the airport to collect me, not just wait by curb outside, he handed me his precious
gift before even giving a hug. ‘this is for you!’ and my heart exploded in a thousand little pieces
of joy, much like the feeling of holding him for the very first time. and i forced it on my finger vowing to leave it there—until it broke
after only a couple of days and i had to make excuses the rest of my visit about how i was keeping it safe so i could show his grandad
and uncles when i went home, still telling him i loved it every time. when i asked six months ago if he remembered buying me
a special ring, he didn’t. i suspected by then he wouldn’t, but that’s just fine because i still have that ring tucked up in my jewellery box
the one his mother gave me with my initials etched on the latch. and there it will remain as long as i’m alive.
heather pound 2025
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grief is an awkward companion. just when you think you finally understand his bewildering ways
or are immune to his painful influence at last— he pops right back up again unexpected
he is the relationally clumsy uncle who concerns by never being able to predict what he will or will not do at the latest family wedding
will he behave, will he hide
or will he dance the night away limbs akimbo, people staring?
will he offend his tablemates completely unaware while all he wants is to be who he is, do whatever he needs to do
to be accepted and allowed to breathe?
he does not need to be socially embraced to be legitimate, and if he is not invited more often than not, he grows unpredictable indeed
—what might it look like if we were just allowed to grieve?